reply to Charlene's post week 5

Jason said...
It is so hard sometimes to express love especially when you have had bad experiences with love. You begin to wonder does love even exist. Everyone wants to be love and loved a certain way but maybe that is our problem. Sure we all deserve to be treated well and taken care of but who is to say there is a right or wrong way to love some one or show it. I remember my last relationship and how I was told I needed to love this way and do this and do that. I never was allowed to love the way i knew how. Sure it wasnt perfect and then again none of us our. What makes us all unique and special is how we express that love whether its spiritual, physicaly, emotional, or whatever. Love is such a general term and it can be interept in some many ways. In the end love for me is communicating, respecting, just meeting in the middle. Like you said Charlene you know your husband and you knew his MO. That right there is love. Just knowing what your husband is thinking and wanting to communicate with you to me is a part of love. Just knowing what the other person is thinking as if your brains are on the same page. Also seeing that you guys have been together for 20 years still gives me hope in a society that sees people get divorced more than they go to the movies.